Wednesday, March 22, 2006
Co-Op Is Not Cooperating
I have tons of things to tell you...but I'm not. I'll just tell you this.
I CAIN'T be stopped YO!
Spring is upon us, summer is here....I blossom like a flower in warm weather...I strut and show my feathers like a she-cock (peacock)...my mojo has been replenished during the winter and watch out if your male...paid...and nice to look at!
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Tonight I am having dinner with the Puerto Rican. I wrote about him the beginning of last year but didn't really EXpound... so I will this time because after a year and a half of knowing this man....he deserves one post to himself.
Ode to the Puerto Rican...lol
I was/am on Blackplanet. I used to get tons of hits...so much so that I couldn't keep up so finally I just stopped logging on...or would log on and then right back off because I wanted to keep my page open. On one rare occasion that I did read my notes...I came across a nice hello from HIM.
I never liked the fact that people other than black would be on this site....or any site that was specifically set up for black people...yea, whatever so what I am a tad bit racist.
...that was until I met...the puerto rican, who I will at this time call Co-op. He is 6 feet, about 205 lbs, he is 8 years older than me and he lives in the Bronx... He has worked at the same job for 17 years and he is for the most part, stable.
I talked to him here and there on the phone before we decided to meet. Then he would come down to my job in lower Manhattan for lunch. He'd pick me up from pool and take me to get spanish food (which is COMPLETELY different from Mexican food)...one of the things that I hated....he worked nights. We'd go back to his place and he'd cook and we'd rent some movies and lay up and cuddle. There were a couple of nights that I did end up staying the night. I felt comfortable with him. However, I was not so comfortable that I wanted to have sex with him.
There are quite a few things that can turn me off sexually but the ultimate is someone that doesn't know how to kiss. Now of course, you ask anyone and they are going to tell you that they are the masters of the kissing game... not always the case, no matter how many moutains they shout it from.
Co-op had thin lips. I like a full set of lips. I love running the underneath of my tongue across the lower lip as I suck up on the top lip. I love taking small nips at the bottom lip and kissing the corners of your mouth. I love the way nice juicy lips feel as I brush my lips lightly across them.
Thin lips don't generally give me these pleasures. I have dated nothing but black men and it's been VERY rare that I dated any with thin lips...stands to reason....I haven't cultivated my thin-lip technique.
The other thing that made me JUST sleep at his place....he was whiny. A grown ass man that has to whine about wanting the pussy will totally turn me off. I let him taste me down low and he was rather ......nice at it. Yet...he never got to put it in. I did the Secret Chinese Handshake more times than I can tell you. Pretty much RE-activated my tendonitis in my right wrist because he was getting those things all the time! While I was giving him his "happy endings", I straddle him so that my thighs are resting on the top of his legs as I am facing him. I scoot far enough back that my ass is on the bed and that the heat from my pussy is sitting close enough to his sac that he can feel the heat from the kitty
Sidenote: I CAN NOT BELIEVE I AM BEING THIS GRAPHIC AND GIVING AWAY MY secrets to MY SECRET CHINESE HANDSHAKE TO THE FREE WORLD!!!!!
and it also gives me the right amount of space so that my left hand can go between us so I can grab and squeeze (if he so wishes) his sac. BUT, before all that happens I sorta play haphazardly with myself so that he gets a visual as I am sitting across from him....most men get a little chubby if not a full on erection when a woman does this...so I do that so that I am not straining my wrist and hand muscles trying to bring a turtle out of it's shell.
Before all of this starts I have set everything in place in the room/livingroom...where ever I am feeling I am going to say "hello" to his dick. I set out my oil (which works better than lotion, lotion tends to dry up faster and I am constantly having to get more...ultimately messing up the flow), I sometimes get a cup of ice and usually set out a damp wash cloth. IF I plan on sucking dick I usually have some cool mint strips by the bed...I can pop one in real quick and suck air into my mouth as I am doing the up-stroke and then the warm thing as I am going back down in a spiral motion. Some chick told me to use Altoids...but her silly as was old school and one of those big bulking Altoids had me choking one time. Trying to maneuver an altoid with my tongue at the same time as giving head is just plain stupid. So I tested the effect of a mint strip on my finger and liked it so I incorporated it into my fellatio repertoire.
Co-op was not getting "head". Of course he tried...of course he tried ALOT of ways to get head, get sex...but to no avail. When I am stubborn...I am immovable.
Plus....Co-op's D-I-C-K is H-U-G-E! ...and oddly enough...dark brown...chocolate even.
Odd because Co-op is a lite skinned puerto rican. Damn near white puerto rican...but his man-tool (white pornos have stupid names for shit), was like a black mans...in color and size....lol
It was so huge that I was a tad bit intimidated. Ok...I WAS intimidated.
My girlfriends have told me stories about them getting stupid sprung off a big dick. I've SEEN them go through some hell based off a big ass dick! I am not the one. Ain't gonna happen. Hence, we never had sex. I loved being around him...he is very Co-oPerative, stable, nice-looking, older, not alot of hassle...but fucking was outta the question.
I'm not getting sprung on dick. I'd rather get sprung off him...the way he treats me, talks to me, his mind, his soul, his actions...but not something so simple as his dick. Plus, he'd distort my pussy...Hellous Nous!
He has has been contacting me via IM since I stopped hanging out with him early last year...asking me to come over and asking me to dinner. He has been very consistent and persistent. Surprises me that a man would still be interested after all this time. Although, it could be that I just happen to be the "one that got away" without first hitting it. Either way, he's picking up up after pool tonight. We are going to dinner...then I am taking my silly ass home.
As I am typing this...I am wondering WHY IS HE still pursuing me? A year and 5 months later, I am still on this mans radar. I never call him, don't return his calls, sometimes don't respond to his IM's (just close the box and go about my business), most times I am a bitch when dealing with him...asking why he is still bugging me. I have told him to go away and leave me alone.
.........so now I am wondering....if we EVER did have sex, would he be even worse than DipSet is now. I have heard stories of latin men being possessive. Is there a bit of truth to those stories?
*and by the way....I told DipSet I was moving out.......THAT is another blog...maybe.
I CAIN'T be stopped YO!
Spring is upon us, summer is here....I blossom like a flower in warm weather...I strut and show my feathers like a she-cock (peacock)...my mojo has been replenished during the winter and watch out if your male...paid...and nice to look at!
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Tonight I am having dinner with the Puerto Rican. I wrote about him the beginning of last year but didn't really EXpound... so I will this time because after a year and a half of knowing this man....he deserves one post to himself.
Ode to the Puerto Rican...lol
I was/am on Blackplanet. I used to get tons of hits...so much so that I couldn't keep up so finally I just stopped logging on...or would log on and then right back off because I wanted to keep my page open. On one rare occasion that I did read my notes...I came across a nice hello from HIM.
I never liked the fact that people other than black would be on this site....or any site that was specifically set up for black people...yea, whatever so what I am a tad bit racist.
...that was until I met...the puerto rican, who I will at this time call Co-op. He is 6 feet, about 205 lbs, he is 8 years older than me and he lives in the Bronx... He has worked at the same job for 17 years and he is for the most part, stable.
I talked to him here and there on the phone before we decided to meet. Then he would come down to my job in lower Manhattan for lunch. He'd pick me up from pool and take me to get spanish food (which is COMPLETELY different from Mexican food)...one of the things that I hated....he worked nights. We'd go back to his place and he'd cook and we'd rent some movies and lay up and cuddle. There were a couple of nights that I did end up staying the night. I felt comfortable with him. However, I was not so comfortable that I wanted to have sex with him.
There are quite a few things that can turn me off sexually but the ultimate is someone that doesn't know how to kiss. Now of course, you ask anyone and they are going to tell you that they are the masters of the kissing game... not always the case, no matter how many moutains they shout it from.
Co-op had thin lips. I like a full set of lips. I love running the underneath of my tongue across the lower lip as I suck up on the top lip. I love taking small nips at the bottom lip and kissing the corners of your mouth. I love the way nice juicy lips feel as I brush my lips lightly across them.
Thin lips don't generally give me these pleasures. I have dated nothing but black men and it's been VERY rare that I dated any with thin lips...stands to reason....I haven't cultivated my thin-lip technique.
The other thing that made me JUST sleep at his place....he was whiny. A grown ass man that has to whine about wanting the pussy will totally turn me off. I let him taste me down low and he was rather ......nice at it. Yet...he never got to put it in. I did the Secret Chinese Handshake more times than I can tell you. Pretty much RE-activated my tendonitis in my right wrist because he was getting those things all the time! While I was giving him his "happy endings", I straddle him so that my thighs are resting on the top of his legs as I am facing him. I scoot far enough back that my ass is on the bed and that the heat from my pussy is sitting close enough to his sac that he can feel the heat from the kitty
Sidenote: I CAN NOT BELIEVE I AM BEING THIS GRAPHIC AND GIVING AWAY MY secrets to MY SECRET CHINESE HANDSHAKE TO THE FREE WORLD!!!!!
and it also gives me the right amount of space so that my left hand can go between us so I can grab and squeeze (if he so wishes) his sac. BUT, before all that happens I sorta play haphazardly with myself so that he gets a visual as I am sitting across from him....most men get a little chubby if not a full on erection when a woman does this...so I do that so that I am not straining my wrist and hand muscles trying to bring a turtle out of it's shell.
Before all of this starts I have set everything in place in the room/livingroom...where ever I am feeling I am going to say "hello" to his dick. I set out my oil (which works better than lotion, lotion tends to dry up faster and I am constantly having to get more...ultimately messing up the flow), I sometimes get a cup of ice and usually set out a damp wash cloth. IF I plan on sucking dick I usually have some cool mint strips by the bed...I can pop one in real quick and suck air into my mouth as I am doing the up-stroke and then the warm thing as I am going back down in a spiral motion. Some chick told me to use Altoids...but her silly as was old school and one of those big bulking Altoids had me choking one time. Trying to maneuver an altoid with my tongue at the same time as giving head is just plain stupid. So I tested the effect of a mint strip on my finger and liked it so I incorporated it into my fellatio repertoire.
Co-op was not getting "head". Of course he tried...of course he tried ALOT of ways to get head, get sex...but to no avail. When I am stubborn...I am immovable.
Plus....Co-op's D-I-C-K is H-U-G-E! ...and oddly enough...dark brown...chocolate even.
Odd because Co-op is a lite skinned puerto rican. Damn near white puerto rican...but his man-tool (white pornos have stupid names for shit), was like a black mans...in color and size....lol
It was so huge that I was a tad bit intimidated. Ok...I WAS intimidated.
My girlfriends have told me stories about them getting stupid sprung off a big dick. I've SEEN them go through some hell based off a big ass dick! I am not the one. Ain't gonna happen. Hence, we never had sex. I loved being around him...he is very Co-oPerative, stable, nice-looking, older, not alot of hassle...but fucking was outta the question.
I'm not getting sprung on dick. I'd rather get sprung off him...the way he treats me, talks to me, his mind, his soul, his actions...but not something so simple as his dick. Plus, he'd distort my pussy...Hellous Nous!
He has has been contacting me via IM since I stopped hanging out with him early last year...asking me to come over and asking me to dinner. He has been very consistent and persistent. Surprises me that a man would still be interested after all this time. Although, it could be that I just happen to be the "one that got away" without first hitting it. Either way, he's picking up up after pool tonight. We are going to dinner...then I am taking my silly ass home.
As I am typing this...I am wondering WHY IS HE still pursuing me? A year and 5 months later, I am still on this mans radar. I never call him, don't return his calls, sometimes don't respond to his IM's (just close the box and go about my business), most times I am a bitch when dealing with him...asking why he is still bugging me. I have told him to go away and leave me alone.
.........so now I am wondering....if we EVER did have sex, would he be even worse than DipSet is now. I have heard stories of latin men being possessive. Is there a bit of truth to those stories?
*and by the way....I told DipSet I was moving out.......THAT is another blog...maybe.
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