Tuesday, April 4, 2006
A Couple Of Call Outs Before I Go
...positive.
Yea, after this I am going positive and also discontinuing my "DipSet Stories". I am starting to see a growing trend in blogging.....I am not trying to get caught up in it because it's not worth the energy or the time. So, henceforth....I will, keep my immediate personal/relationship outta the blog limelight...DipSet (who I personally now refer to as The 8itch) will not be discussed. But don't be dismayed my dear blogging buddies....I have a plethra of past stories about "situations" that I am sure willl give you a few chuckles, rolling of the eyes, and "oh boys!"
1. I hate when people state the obvious. Example: As I am putting on my shoes, don't ask me if I am putting on my shoes. If I am standing at the elevator ...don't ask me if I am waiting for the damn elevator.
2. Don't question me UNLESS I have asked for your advice/opinion/input.
3. This is to the men: Be man enough to pick up the phone and say what's on your mind! (generally I hate when women say "be man enough" or "be a man" as if we had any clue as to what being a man is all about OR as if being a man is different from just being a basic human being with some courtesy...but today I am saying...be a man!)
4.Always have money if your doing the asking out (this applies to men AND WOMEN). You CAN NOT ask someone to the movies and then expect them to pay.
5. Just because my point of view isn't the same as yours DOES NOT mean that we can't be friends. Means that we are two fucking different individuals with two fucking different opinions. Agree to fucking disagree and grow the fuck up!
6. Don't change the rules in the middle of the game. Yes, I have done this.... but fa real...DON'T do that shit, it only confuses the other people involved. IF you see some things/feelings starting to change within yourself....communicate that before it gets to be full-blown and freaks the other person out.
7. Say what you muthafucken mean and mean what you muthafucken say! Point blank! If your word can not be trusted...how do you expect anyone to ever fully trust your actions.
8. I believe that a woman that can see/fuck/date a man that's already in a relationship...can not be trusted for friendship.
9. A man that can see/fuck/date a woman that's already in a relationship...lacks intergrity.
10. A person that cheats will more than likely do it again.
11. Stop acting holier than thou....you've taken a pen/pencil from work, meaning you've stolen from your company! Small in comparison to some shit but all the same....stop acting like your bitch ass has never done no wrong.
12. If I leave you because you cheated on me....don't be mad at me for not being able to deal with your indiscretions. Spreading lies and poisoning my name everytime my name comes out of your mouth. It is what it is...get over it and move the fuck on.
13. Just because you can admit you have faults....you can even list them out on a sheet of paper....doesn't mean SHIT! It's only when you take those faults and start to work on them one by one does your acknowledging them mean growth and awaremess. Yes, you've past the first level by being aware that you have them....don't be proud until you've made steps to turn them around.
14. Stop acting like people OWE you something in life. All I owe you is the general courtesy of not fucking taking your last breath from your body. Other than that...I am trying to fucking live this life just like you....let's walk this path in harmony!
15. Being positive does not mean not having any problems, or that life is wonderful all the time....it means being able to encourage someone when they are down and being able to give me an opinion/outlook that is going to help me instead of adding more weight to my back. I understand that sometimes we go through some things that seem like we're the only ones who have ever gone through it....or our problems start to blind us to others issues....or we feel like we have nothing else to give of ourselves....but positive can also mean keeping your mouth shut at the right time.
16.Stop reading too much into a statement or situation. Let shit flow and roll with it. Too much pressure to a brand new thing is gonna take all the sparkle away from the brand new-ness of now. And don't fucking act like you don't know what the fuck I mean.
17. To women: STOP being so fucking competitive...there are enough of them out there for all of us...and even if your greedy....theres 4 and 5 of 'em....believe me I KNOW!!! So tired of women talking about there are no good men out there........every man that I have had the misfortune to meet has been a good man....starting from my daddy on down to the bullshit I lay next to every night. Half of you aren't even up to your full potential to be talking that shit. Coming to the table with no shit to offer but your pussy and think that men are suppose to give you everything JUST BECAUSE....women like that are a dime a dozen... be different. Just be sure YOU dot all your "I's" and cross all YOUR "T's". ANd be the fuck still...meaning be patient and realize you don't have to chase every dick out there.
18. To men: I wish some of you had daughters, living grandmothers and loving mothers to know...that you don't need to treat women they way some of you do. I wish you had what was needed for you to give birth and then see, that which you labored for...brought life into...felt grow inside of you... being abused by something so faulible and simple...as SIMPLE as man. Your gonna run across a woman that's gonna flip a Celie on you..."Till you do right by me, everything you even think about gonna' fail." Be easy...and do right.
19. Know your limitations.
20. Acknowledge that there is something bigger, greater than you and that you do not run shit. Your not here by choice, your here for a reason... Don't let your life be an example of those things that aren't true aren't real.
I have more things to rant about but the reason I listed these things is because in the last week I have ran across someone or some situation that has brought these to the forefront of my pisstivity and irritation. YES! Of course I am guilty, at one time or another, of some of the things listed.
What's ugly: My forehead is peeling....got sunBURNED in Puerto Rico.
Yea, after this I am going positive and also discontinuing my "DipSet Stories". I am starting to see a growing trend in blogging.....I am not trying to get caught up in it because it's not worth the energy or the time. So, henceforth....I will, keep my immediate personal/relationship outta the blog limelight...DipSet (who I personally now refer to as The 8itch) will not be discussed. But don't be dismayed my dear blogging buddies....I have a plethra of past stories about "situations" that I am sure willl give you a few chuckles, rolling of the eyes, and "oh boys!"
1. I hate when people state the obvious. Example: As I am putting on my shoes, don't ask me if I am putting on my shoes. If I am standing at the elevator ...don't ask me if I am waiting for the damn elevator.
2. Don't question me UNLESS I have asked for your advice/opinion/input.
3. This is to the men: Be man enough to pick up the phone and say what's on your mind! (generally I hate when women say "be man enough" or "be a man" as if we had any clue as to what being a man is all about OR as if being a man is different from just being a basic human being with some courtesy...but today I am saying...be a man!)
4.Always have money if your doing the asking out (this applies to men AND WOMEN). You CAN NOT ask someone to the movies and then expect them to pay.
5. Just because my point of view isn't the same as yours DOES NOT mean that we can't be friends. Means that we are two fucking different individuals with two fucking different opinions. Agree to fucking disagree and grow the fuck up!
6. Don't change the rules in the middle of the game. Yes, I have done this.... but fa real...DON'T do that shit, it only confuses the other people involved. IF you see some things/feelings starting to change within yourself....communicate that before it gets to be full-blown and freaks the other person out.
7. Say what you muthafucken mean and mean what you muthafucken say! Point blank! If your word can not be trusted...how do you expect anyone to ever fully trust your actions.
8. I believe that a woman that can see/fuck/date a man that's already in a relationship...can not be trusted for friendship.
9. A man that can see/fuck/date a woman that's already in a relationship...lacks intergrity.
10. A person that cheats will more than likely do it again.
11. Stop acting holier than thou....you've taken a pen/pencil from work, meaning you've stolen from your company! Small in comparison to some shit but all the same....stop acting like your bitch ass has never done no wrong.
12. If I leave you because you cheated on me....don't be mad at me for not being able to deal with your indiscretions. Spreading lies and poisoning my name everytime my name comes out of your mouth. It is what it is...get over it and move the fuck on.
13. Just because you can admit you have faults....you can even list them out on a sheet of paper....doesn't mean SHIT! It's only when you take those faults and start to work on them one by one does your acknowledging them mean growth and awaremess. Yes, you've past the first level by being aware that you have them....don't be proud until you've made steps to turn them around.
14. Stop acting like people OWE you something in life. All I owe you is the general courtesy of not fucking taking your last breath from your body. Other than that...I am trying to fucking live this life just like you....let's walk this path in harmony!
15. Being positive does not mean not having any problems, or that life is wonderful all the time....it means being able to encourage someone when they are down and being able to give me an opinion/outlook that is going to help me instead of adding more weight to my back. I understand that sometimes we go through some things that seem like we're the only ones who have ever gone through it....or our problems start to blind us to others issues....or we feel like we have nothing else to give of ourselves....but positive can also mean keeping your mouth shut at the right time.
16.Stop reading too much into a statement or situation. Let shit flow and roll with it. Too much pressure to a brand new thing is gonna take all the sparkle away from the brand new-ness of now. And don't fucking act like you don't know what the fuck I mean.
17. To women: STOP being so fucking competitive...there are enough of them out there for all of us...and even if your greedy....theres 4 and 5 of 'em....believe me I KNOW!!! So tired of women talking about there are no good men out there........every man that I have had the misfortune to meet has been a good man....starting from my daddy on down to the bullshit I lay next to every night. Half of you aren't even up to your full potential to be talking that shit. Coming to the table with no shit to offer but your pussy and think that men are suppose to give you everything JUST BECAUSE....women like that are a dime a dozen... be different. Just be sure YOU dot all your "I's" and cross all YOUR "T's". ANd be the fuck still...meaning be patient and realize you don't have to chase every dick out there.
18. To men: I wish some of you had daughters, living grandmothers and loving mothers to know...that you don't need to treat women they way some of you do. I wish you had what was needed for you to give birth and then see, that which you labored for...brought life into...felt grow inside of you... being abused by something so faulible and simple...as SIMPLE as man. Your gonna run across a woman that's gonna flip a Celie on you..."Till you do right by me, everything you even think about gonna' fail." Be easy...and do right.
19. Know your limitations.
20. Acknowledge that there is something bigger, greater than you and that you do not run shit. Your not here by choice, your here for a reason... Don't let your life be an example of those things that aren't true aren't real.
I have more things to rant about but the reason I listed these things is because in the last week I have ran across someone or some situation that has brought these to the forefront of my pisstivity and irritation. YES! Of course I am guilty, at one time or another, of some of the things listed.
What's ugly: My forehead is peeling....got sunBURNED in Puerto Rico.
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