Tuesday, September 26, 2006
You Let Go...
...and I'll let go too.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Scrivo said...
If there were only two persons on the earth, you and George Bush, Jr. Would you have sex with him to re-populate the earth.
I'd probably have sex with him...after all...who would know. AND you know...stupid people are usually uber freaky because they don't know any better.
1969 said...
How do you feel the physical abuse you have gone through in the past has shaped your current self?
Odd question because I have never been hit. The one incident that I had in 2004 did not include him hitting me. He & I were "making love"... and he was hurt and he wanted 1) to show me he loved me and 2) for me to feel his "hurt". It was an emotional experience.
As for shaping me...well I have never been hit...by any man... not even a whuppin' from my daddy or family. I don't really know that pain. As for what Bryan did to me... it didn't shape me.
Royce's Daughter said...
1) You've mentioned before that your father is written about in textbooks...who is he or if you aren't comfortable telling who (cause I know how I am about my Daddy) can you tell us why he has been written about?
He was a politician.
2) What's your biggest regret in life?
I didn't finish the schooling I wanted due to me getting married WAY to young and having babies. I don't regret the babies...just the marriage.
1969 said...
My 2nd question...What is your favorite comfort food?
Baby carrots that are sold in bags. I use to put them in TLA's lunch when he was first diagnosised with diabetes...in 1999. Since then...it's rare to NOT find a bag of baby carrots in my refrigerator.
Charles said...
Any advice for a 22 year old in grad school with social problems to rival a soap opera?
My advice is to understand why people do the things they do. See both sides of an arguement. Agree or don't agree but always understand where it comes from.
It helps on moving past things that you don't want to revisit and to leave behind.
And 2nd question...what do you females talk about in the absence of males?? Just curious...
We talk about everything! However, in regards to men...we talk about how asshole-ish men are....with huge amounts of love... large doses of longing... and handfuls of childish wonderment, of that which is so not like us... but that, which we are not totally complete without.
calikim9 said...
What advice if any will you give your sons regarding women who are dependent financially and emotionally?
Financially... As for women that they are just dating... never try to buy a womans affection with money or material things because 9 out of 10 times your heart and bank will get broke!
Emotionally... stay away from a woman that can not function without them around.
The women should be able to function and stand alone, without men, financially and emotionally.
Knockout Zed said...
Why is Zed so damn fly?
Because he's the Juggernaunt, BITCH!!!!
How come you didn't realize this earlier?
I did - why hasn't he?
Scrivo said...
If your boyfreind/husband/lover was raped by a bi-sexual gang member, would you continue to love him the same way before the rape? Would you look at hime the same way?
No. No.
If your husband went to jail for avenging his mothers death, how long (years) would you wait before you called it quits?
None.
Terry said...
1.)What scares you the most about opening your heart to a man?
That at the point that he opens himself to me... I will fall out of love with him.
2.)What do you think is the biggest mistake that men tend to make in regard to sex?
At the beginning, they add too much pressure to a situation that should be "flowed" into. If it's gonna happen... it's definitely going to happen and there is no reason to rush it.
Miss Ahmad said...
what was the best part about being raised in Oakland?
The diversity. I went to Berkeley high... the only all african american studies high school curriculum in the nation. I took every freaking general class and all my electives in african american studies. The enviromental beauty of green hills to the north and the blue ocean to the west and south...driving down 580 from Castor Valley...seeing the flat lands on the left and as you make your way around the curve by Keller and seeing the green hills in the spring on your right...then driving towards SF...you see nothing but blue skies and blue ocean in front of you... Beautiful.
What made you move to NYC and do you see yourself there forever?
I tell everyone I moved here because of a job. It was actually BECAUSE OF a man who MADE an oppurtunity. I could never make New York my home for life. Ever.
Sarccastik Sports Illustrated!!! said...
What's the reason u are single?
There are too many attractive men who are attracted to me, for me to settle down. I crave variety and I am easily bored.
Were you married before and how long?
Yes. 9 years.
onefromphilly said...
What really happened with Jersey?
Jersey lives in Newark, I live in Harlem. He really worked too much. One job started at 5:00 in the morning and the second at 3 in the afternoon and ended at 10:00pm... He had one day off in the middle of the week and he used that day to do everything that had piled up (bills, grocery shopping, running errands)... we literally didn't have schedules that worked to make for and conducive relationship.
Although, I am going to go out on a limb and say that he was rebound. Most of my men are rebound. It is always a matter of time before they loose their sparkle.
Even without marriage, could you settle down and be happy in a manogamous relationship. In other words could you be happy growing old with one man?
I would prefer to settle down without getting married. Would I be happy? I honestly think that nothing is meant to last forever... so for however long the relationship lasted would be good.
T. Cas said...
So now that you have hung out with T. Cas... what do you really think about him? LOL
I think he is sweet.
So...Wise...Sista said...
What are your sons like? Personality, I mean.
TLA is the kind of person that girls will like because he's quiet and mysterious. The kind of person that guys will like because he's that "cool cat" who doesn't cause static, is laidback but will step up and smack you back in place if you've stepped out of line. He's an all-around athlete and good with his grades. A thinker that observes. He's a teenager so he wants to be included. He sensitive and emotional but not a punk. He's thoughtful and courteous with a ready smile. He's affectionate. He's fun and has an awesome sense of humor. He loves his brother.
CLA is the kind of kid that girls will love because he's cute and funny. The kind of kid that guys will like because he keeps everyone laughing, has a little bit of too much edge (lol) and will have your back if he's your friend. He signs up for every sport, more for the status that goes with being on the "football" or "baseball" team... yea, he's shallow...lol He is the funniest kid I have ever in my life met and sometimes when he does something that I can't understand...I see alot of me in him. He is creative and he is unfocused. He loves his brother like crazy.
What things did you desire 10 years ago that you do not desire now?
I was married and had no desire for anything. I had life because I had breath in my body but I wasn't living.
Sarccastik Sports Illustrated!!! said...
Do you prefer to "shoot the bird" from your left or right hand?
I shoot the bird with both hands and I flick my finger for emphasis.
How often do you make the first move in introducing yourself to someone you deemed attractive?
I don't make moves...I create oppurtunities.
Do you like to mix your mashed potatoes and spinach together?
I don't mix my food period dot!
Have you ever had a "loaded baked potato" in a martini glass? (it's actually pretty good)
No. That would be a good waste of a martini glass.
Why the hell it's taking u too long to update and tell us where you went? :)
I was in Atlanta :-)
~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Scrivo said...
If there were only two persons on the earth, you and George Bush, Jr. Would you have sex with him to re-populate the earth.
I'd probably have sex with him...after all...who would know. AND you know...stupid people are usually uber freaky because they don't know any better.
1969 said...
How do you feel the physical abuse you have gone through in the past has shaped your current self?
Odd question because I have never been hit. The one incident that I had in 2004 did not include him hitting me. He & I were "making love"... and he was hurt and he wanted 1) to show me he loved me and 2) for me to feel his "hurt". It was an emotional experience.
As for shaping me...well I have never been hit...by any man... not even a whuppin' from my daddy or family. I don't really know that pain. As for what Bryan did to me... it didn't shape me.
Royce's Daughter said...
1) You've mentioned before that your father is written about in textbooks...who is he or if you aren't comfortable telling who (cause I know how I am about my Daddy) can you tell us why he has been written about?
He was a politician.
2) What's your biggest regret in life?
I didn't finish the schooling I wanted due to me getting married WAY to young and having babies. I don't regret the babies...just the marriage.
1969 said...
My 2nd question...What is your favorite comfort food?
Baby carrots that are sold in bags. I use to put them in TLA's lunch when he was first diagnosised with diabetes...in 1999. Since then...it's rare to NOT find a bag of baby carrots in my refrigerator.
Charles said...
Any advice for a 22 year old in grad school with social problems to rival a soap opera?
My advice is to understand why people do the things they do. See both sides of an arguement. Agree or don't agree but always understand where it comes from.
It helps on moving past things that you don't want to revisit and to leave behind.
And 2nd question...what do you females talk about in the absence of males?? Just curious...
We talk about everything! However, in regards to men...we talk about how asshole-ish men are....with huge amounts of love... large doses of longing... and handfuls of childish wonderment, of that which is so not like us... but that, which we are not totally complete without.
calikim9 said...
What advice if any will you give your sons regarding women who are dependent financially and emotionally?
Financially... As for women that they are just dating... never try to buy a womans affection with money or material things because 9 out of 10 times your heart and bank will get broke!
Emotionally... stay away from a woman that can not function without them around.
The women should be able to function and stand alone, without men, financially and emotionally.
Knockout Zed said...
Why is Zed so damn fly?
Because he's the Juggernaunt, BITCH!!!!
How come you didn't realize this earlier?
I did - why hasn't he?
Scrivo said...
If your boyfreind/husband/lover was raped by a bi-sexual gang member, would you continue to love him the same way before the rape? Would you look at hime the same way?
No. No.
If your husband went to jail for avenging his mothers death, how long (years) would you wait before you called it quits?
None.
Terry said...
1.)What scares you the most about opening your heart to a man?
That at the point that he opens himself to me... I will fall out of love with him.
2.)What do you think is the biggest mistake that men tend to make in regard to sex?
At the beginning, they add too much pressure to a situation that should be "flowed" into. If it's gonna happen... it's definitely going to happen and there is no reason to rush it.
Miss Ahmad said...
what was the best part about being raised in Oakland?
The diversity. I went to Berkeley high... the only all african american studies high school curriculum in the nation. I took every freaking general class and all my electives in african american studies. The enviromental beauty of green hills to the north and the blue ocean to the west and south...driving down 580 from Castor Valley...seeing the flat lands on the left and as you make your way around the curve by Keller and seeing the green hills in the spring on your right...then driving towards SF...you see nothing but blue skies and blue ocean in front of you... Beautiful.
What made you move to NYC and do you see yourself there forever?
I tell everyone I moved here because of a job. It was actually BECAUSE OF a man who MADE an oppurtunity. I could never make New York my home for life. Ever.
Sarccastik Sports Illustrated!!! said...
What's the reason u are single?
There are too many attractive men who are attracted to me, for me to settle down. I crave variety and I am easily bored.
Were you married before and how long?
Yes. 9 years.
onefromphilly said...
What really happened with Jersey?
Jersey lives in Newark, I live in Harlem. He really worked too much. One job started at 5:00 in the morning and the second at 3 in the afternoon and ended at 10:00pm... He had one day off in the middle of the week and he used that day to do everything that had piled up (bills, grocery shopping, running errands)... we literally didn't have schedules that worked to make for and conducive relationship.
Although, I am going to go out on a limb and say that he was rebound. Most of my men are rebound. It is always a matter of time before they loose their sparkle.
Even without marriage, could you settle down and be happy in a manogamous relationship. In other words could you be happy growing old with one man?
I would prefer to settle down without getting married. Would I be happy? I honestly think that nothing is meant to last forever... so for however long the relationship lasted would be good.
T. Cas said...
So now that you have hung out with T. Cas... what do you really think about him? LOL
I think he is sweet.
So...Wise...Sista said...
What are your sons like? Personality, I mean.
TLA is the kind of person that girls will like because he's quiet and mysterious. The kind of person that guys will like because he's that "cool cat" who doesn't cause static, is laidback but will step up and smack you back in place if you've stepped out of line. He's an all-around athlete and good with his grades. A thinker that observes. He's a teenager so he wants to be included. He sensitive and emotional but not a punk. He's thoughtful and courteous with a ready smile. He's affectionate. He's fun and has an awesome sense of humor. He loves his brother.
CLA is the kind of kid that girls will love because he's cute and funny. The kind of kid that guys will like because he keeps everyone laughing, has a little bit of too much edge (lol) and will have your back if he's your friend. He signs up for every sport, more for the status that goes with being on the "football" or "baseball" team... yea, he's shallow...lol He is the funniest kid I have ever in my life met and sometimes when he does something that I can't understand...I see alot of me in him. He is creative and he is unfocused. He loves his brother like crazy.
What things did you desire 10 years ago that you do not desire now?
I was married and had no desire for anything. I had life because I had breath in my body but I wasn't living.
Sarccastik Sports Illustrated!!! said...
Do you prefer to "shoot the bird" from your left or right hand?
I shoot the bird with both hands and I flick my finger for emphasis.
How often do you make the first move in introducing yourself to someone you deemed attractive?
I don't make moves...I create oppurtunities.
Do you like to mix your mashed potatoes and spinach together?
I don't mix my food period dot!
Have you ever had a "loaded baked potato" in a martini glass? (it's actually pretty good)
No. That would be a good waste of a martini glass.
Why the hell it's taking u too long to update and tell us where you went? :)
I was in Atlanta :-)
nikki said...
sarccastik evidently can't count. LOL (you can't either becasue you numbered it 1 but you have 3 questions...lol)
1. was there a morning where you woke up, looked in the mirror, and truly loathed what you saw after something you'd done the previous night?
Yes.
if so, when
Superbowl sunday 2004
and what?
I told "my great like" that he needed therapy because I think he wanted to fuck his momma.
sarccastik evidently can't count. LOL (you can't either becasue you numbered it 1 but you have 3 questions...lol)
1. was there a morning where you woke up, looked in the mirror, and truly loathed what you saw after something you'd done the previous night?
Yes.
if so, when
Superbowl sunday 2004
and what?
I told "my great like" that he needed therapy because I think he wanted to fuck his momma.
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