Writing My Wrongs

“Usher is sexy as fuck… I don’t even think he is all that attractive but there is something about him that makes him sexy. If my man walked up to me and whispered in my ear…C’mere and let daddy show you what it feel like…he’d get the panties right there on the spot!”

“Well maybe if your man knew that you’d make love in the club…he might.”

“Maybe if my man was to make a move…he’d know that sexing in the club isn’t something that’s brand new.”

“Wait! You’ve had sex in a club? You’re a freak!”

“I’m only a freak because it wasn’t with you…”

There is something to be said for an expert dater…
They know what to say and when to say it…they know when they are suppose to step up and not hesitate. They know when to be assertive and how to massage a situation that can be emotional …or volatile. They know where to go and how to dress, they know how to order what wine with what entrée. They’ve paid attention and perfected the two-step that dates tend to dance to, where to touch without being offensive, when to kiss, and have paid attention to the little details that most wouldn’t. They always have a story when there is a lull in the conversation…usually some funny antidote to relax a person. They have topics to encourage conversation…and if the other person is on par with their skills…it becomes a game of wits...which leads to the good part…the chase.

You see, at my age…I don’t want to have to teach anyone anything new. I am not into training anyone as if they were some pet animal. As much as some women spout off at the mouth about that action… fuck that, your grown and I am grown and this dating game is nothing new to either of us… don’t hesitate now!

I need for my date…my man…to PAY ATTENTION.

Maybe my expectation is too far up there but really… mid 30’s and on…I just expect a man to have paid attention to a woman that he has been dating… or if he loves women as men say they do…have you not taken the time to cultivate that talent to be able to gauge the tone of a conversation, the subtly of being arrogant yet cavalier, being a flirt and a gentleman all rolled up in one?