Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Waiting To Go Green
I had all kinds of topics to discuss...well...maybe not discuss but bring up. But...at this point...my mind has been at a stop light on this current situation with Dude....oh but wait, Philly Bound… Philly Bound has finally contacted me...after no communication since 4th of July...when he text me...
"Tell me I'm not alone. I think about u constantly."
I really want to post what he said yesterday but... I am still at that stop light too.You see, I am waiting...waiting for that shit to turn green so I can proceed...pass that situation up and focus in on what I need. But I have a feeling…despite what he wrote…he wants me to reach out and change his mind.
Which means, he’s going to contact me again…’cause he is going to give me every opportunity to convince him that he should play with fire.
Now ordinarily…I like convincing a man to play with fire… just to see if I can… it’s the chase I like…not the catch.
Which means, he’s going to contact me again…’cause he is going to give me every opportunity to convince him that he should play with fire.
Now ordinarily…I like convincing a man to play with fire… just to see if I can… it’s the chase I like…not the catch.
I am wondering…if he was thinking I was gonna chase him , does he?
No seriously...does he? Just because I approached him…doesn’t mean I’m into hunting a cat down and blowing up his spot by calling and texting all the time…
I am not even sure I know how to chase a cat…and with me and my mind other places…anything I do would be half-assed. After all, it’s not like I had planned on getting with dude when I first walked up to him… telling him how he was all beautiful and shit. I was just acknowledging that he was someone nice to look at… and maybe if things were different…and if I was that type of chick…I’d climb him and conquer him…if ya know what I mean ::big cheesy wink::
I wasn’t tryna make the man …my man. I have 5 other things on my mind right now…and they aren’t 5 lil things….I’m talking about 5 big ass things that are either red, yellow or green. My concentration is a little off right now.
Oh well...it was dreamy while it lasted. To use his wording...it was movie-like – dream-like. All poetic, fairytale-ish and shit. We all knew that wasn’t gonna last long…it all happened too fast and easy, he was fast and easy.
LOL… I say “easy” like I was tryna hit that…lol
LOL… I say “easy” like I was tryna hit that…lol
I was going to write about some romance...I am finding that I am much more romantic than I used to cop to. Or maybe it's just recently that I started thinking romantic thoughts and trying to make those things ...real. I think I never thought about being romantic because I hadn’t met anyone that I wanted to put all that energy into…time, money and …again…energy.
# posted by Blah Blah Blah : 7:29 PM
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KS: When am I not going thru a transition...lol ...and whether good or bad...you know I enjoy the experience.
The blessin' is in the lesson.
*why is it that I did my own damn verification 3 times...I can't even leave a comment on my own damn blog!!
The blessin' is in the lesson.
*why is it that I did my own damn verification 3 times...I can't even leave a comment on my own damn blog!!
I feel a lil sad for Philly Bound. He was a throwback from Love Jones, but didn't quite make the 2008 cut.
What's going on with Dude?
What's going on with Dude?
Mia: Philly Bound MADE the cut! He stopped himself...HE got scared...overwhelmed at what he thought he was feeling...
I want to blame him for his insecurties...budda, as I always say...I AM some kind of wonderful...
LMAO
I want to blame him for his insecurties...budda, as I always say...I AM some kind of wonderful...
LMAO
I already told you what I thought about him and men who seem to know when you women aren't available...it's a trait I admire cuz I generally tire of bullsh*t...usually my own:-)
I don't think Philly Bound is actually thinking about YOU because quite honestly he doesn't know YOU.
Philly Bound is smitten with your potential. Bet if he knew how hard that obstacle course was and the bumps and scrapes he would acquire trying to obtain that prize. He'd forfeit...lol
Philly Bound is smitten with your potential. Bet if he knew how hard that obstacle course was and the bumps and scrapes he would acquire trying to obtain that prize. He'd forfeit...lol
Well, since I don't know either of these guys it's hard for me to speak to what's going on in their heads. I really can't say what their intentions are or what they want to see happen.
I will say that I think I know you well enough, to say both of them better know what they're dealing with. Like you said, it's the chase you love most.
I will say that I think I know you well enough, to say both of them better know what they're dealing with. Like you said, it's the chase you love most.
@ AJ: Yea, we spoke on this...and I agreed with you about him knowing if he was in it...it wasn't to win it.
@ Slish: You know...you have a very good point...but then all your comments end with a "LOL" which usually makes your statemet lose it's validity with me.
Of curse he didn't know me...he fell in great...admiration for the person he wanted me to be.
Which isn't good...because I generally am who ever you need me to be at the moment.
@ Wise: That's the problem with most women in my opinion... what the fuck is wrong with corny?? I mean, if he says a lot of pretty words and he treats you like a princess...he sends silly pictures of himself every mornig to your phone with words of sunshine and puppy-love bliss....is that so bad? Sometimes I need to hear those things. Those things that make me smile and maybe laugh and maybe...give me hope for that thing called love.
Corny is ok sometimes...and sometimes cute and endearing. What's the fun of dating if you can't absorb the whole experience? I think a lot of women today are very guarded and some so hard they can't see the tenderness that a man is showing them.
I liked him for that...I liked him for his words because he took the time to put some together, that weren't something that I had heard before. It's nice to know a man can pull some other shit out of his hat...different from what the average dude would.
As I told Slish...men half ass the dating game because women expect so little these days. Write me poems, sing me a song on my voicemail, text me a joke, send me a silly picture to laugh at when I get up in the morning. Contact me first thing in the morning and last ting before you go to bed...so I know you wake with me on your mind...and when you lay your head on the pillow before you sleep...
Just sayin'...
@ Terry: Yea...it's in the chase...for those I know won't be permanent. I know that sounds crazy after I just went thru all that with Wise...but I'm moving...and not to Philly, so how was that ever going to work? Like I said...when I approached him...I didn't have plans of making him my husband and us having a gang of kids together.
@ Slish: You know...you have a very good point...but then all your comments end with a "LOL" which usually makes your statemet lose it's validity with me.
Of curse he didn't know me...he fell in great...admiration for the person he wanted me to be.
Which isn't good...because I generally am who ever you need me to be at the moment.
@ Wise: That's the problem with most women in my opinion... what the fuck is wrong with corny?? I mean, if he says a lot of pretty words and he treats you like a princess...he sends silly pictures of himself every mornig to your phone with words of sunshine and puppy-love bliss....is that so bad? Sometimes I need to hear those things. Those things that make me smile and maybe laugh and maybe...give me hope for that thing called love.
Corny is ok sometimes...and sometimes cute and endearing. What's the fun of dating if you can't absorb the whole experience? I think a lot of women today are very guarded and some so hard they can't see the tenderness that a man is showing them.
I liked him for that...I liked him for his words because he took the time to put some together, that weren't something that I had heard before. It's nice to know a man can pull some other shit out of his hat...different from what the average dude would.
As I told Slish...men half ass the dating game because women expect so little these days. Write me poems, sing me a song on my voicemail, text me a joke, send me a silly picture to laugh at when I get up in the morning. Contact me first thing in the morning and last ting before you go to bed...so I know you wake with me on your mind...and when you lay your head on the pillow before you sleep...
Just sayin'...
@ Terry: Yea...it's in the chase...for those I know won't be permanent. I know that sounds crazy after I just went thru all that with Wise...but I'm moving...and not to Philly, so how was that ever going to work? Like I said...when I approached him...I didn't have plans of making him my husband and us having a gang of kids together.
@ Blah Blah Blah
"Just because I approached him…doesn’t mean I’m into hunting a cat down and blowing up his spot by calling and texting all the time…"
That is refreshing to hear. A lotta women will do the opposite and drive themselves crazy.
"Just because I approached him…doesn’t mean I’m into hunting a cat down and blowing up his spot by calling and texting all the time…"
That is refreshing to hear. A lotta women will do the opposite and drive themselves crazy.
I was kinda through with Philly Bound after the first date. I think a guy should do all the things that you describe above ... but right out the gate? Isn't that a little overwhelming? Ease me into it otherwise I'll view the guy as phony and insincere with dishonorable motives.
@ Kyle: I get accuse all the time of being nonchalant or emotionally unavailable...by the very same guys that would agree with you. I don't get it.
Men! Y'all can't be satisfied...lol
@ Michele and Nikki: Ok...I truly get what you are saying...BUT
I wasn't trying to make him mine. So if he was easy and said all those things at the beginning...I was ok with that. I'd rather him run to it now then hang out with him and him catch true feelings at the end. At the end would mean that he really cared...and I ain't tryne hurt nobody.
Y'all and Wise are cynical...lol
I was having fun, it was something new, a diversion, it was sweet...I wasn't tryna jump the broom.
Men! Y'all can't be satisfied...lol
@ Michele and Nikki: Ok...I truly get what you are saying...BUT
I wasn't trying to make him mine. So if he was easy and said all those things at the beginning...I was ok with that. I'd rather him run to it now then hang out with him and him catch true feelings at the end. At the end would mean that he really cared...and I ain't tryne hurt nobody.
Y'all and Wise are cynical...lol
I was having fun, it was something new, a diversion, it was sweet...I wasn't tryna jump the broom.
when you said going GREEN..i thought this was gonna be about recycling, saving the planet, and being economically aware...either way what you really want takes energy and what you don't want takes ... you talk yourself out of both of them...or 4 or 5
why did i totally get this entire post? why? and by all means, don't disappoint the zodiac gods by not giving in to your inner- Aquarian-romantic. i miss the chase, however, it ain't fully dead.
Well dayum, the party ain't even started yet and it's over. I'm sad. LOL.
I must be one easy mo'fo cuz after my first date with my hubby, he was my man. *chuckle*
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I must be one easy mo'fo cuz after my first date with my hubby, he was my man. *chuckle*
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